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When I was planning The Upside Down Pineapple Community, I had big plans on how I wanted it to be. There were plans for members to be able to share their photos, have member created clubs (like mini sites within the site), blogs, etc., but many of you might not be aware that there are a number of states (currently 19) in an all out war against pornography, most under the guise of protecting children and preventing their exposure to adult oriented material. While I'm sure we are all for protecting children from being exposed to adult content, they have put into place some verification requirements, which I think are really just to be so restrictive that it will cause adult website to just close down. For one, they are requiring verification of a government ID, which requires a connection to a government database, that can verify the information on both the front and the back of the ID. Currently I know of no company that offers that at this time, and obviously when one does there will be some cost associated with it, to perform the check, so that is going to hurt a lot of sites. The second way is verifying ownership of property. Either way, this requires providing way too much personal information to the government about who is accessing pornography, especially when some of them are doing everything they can to do away with it (ie. Sen Dusty Deevers from Oklahoma who said “Pornography is both degenerate material and a highly addictive drug. It ruins marriages, ruins lives, destroys innocence, warps young people’s perception of the opposite sex, turns women into objects, turns men into objects, degrades human dignity, and corrodes the moral fabric of society. Any decent society will stand against this plague with the full weight of the law.”). This is the reason sites like PornHub have become unavailable in those states. So, where does that leave The Upside Down Pineapple Community? Well, it certainly puts a damper on how I planned the site, but I think as long as the site is run properly, we will not have any issues. There is definitely a need for it. A long running swingers community, that had been online for over 10 years, just went offline because of this issue, but I don't think it needed to. I think they just needed to be a little more cautious in how they ran the site, but instead they just disappeared. For now I am going to hold off on the other sections and leave things discussion only. The only images people can post for now will be avatars for their profiles, but we do ask that you do not post ANY nudity for now. I am sure these laws will get challenged in court sooner than later, and after their is some further clarification, I'm sure we will be able to open up the other sections as well.

Greetings fellow pineapples! I’d like to welcome you to The Upside Down Pineapple Community! This site is for the discussion of everything to do with the swingers lifestyle. Whether you are a seasoned swinger or just curious about it, this site is for you, so take a moment to create your free user account and join in!

It's finally here! We have added a photo gallery section to the site!!! Feel free to share your photos, both naughty and nice, as well as check out other members photos as well! There is one caveat... due to recently enacted pornography laws in a number of US states, we have had to split up how the photos are displayed. For photos which we classify as falling into the nice category (no nudity, all nips and bits are covered), all registered members can view the photos. For photos which we classify as naughty, only members who have been verified as being over 18 years old will be able to view the photos in those categories. If you would like more information on becoming a verified member, just click here for all of the details.

WHY GET VERIFIED In an effort to combat minors exposure to pornography, multiple United States states (18 currently with 12 more in the process) have enacted laws requiring age verification for access to adult content. Rather than do like a lot of adult sites, and just block those state, we have decided to just restrict access to portions of the site which contain content which would fall under these laws, and then provide a way to get verified, that you are over 18, to get full access to everything. There is no cost to get verified! WHAT YOU GET Since you will be verified that you are over 18, you will get full access to the site. You will have access to all forums, including a special Verified Members forum, which allows you to post photos directly in the forum (the other forums do not allow image posting). You will also get access to all photos in the Gallery section of the site (this includes all of the Members Naughty photos). PRIVACY While we wish we didn’t have to do this at all, your privacy is of the upmost importance to us, so you can be sure we will do everything in our power to protect that. For one, the information you submit will be done through a separate database from the one The Upside Down Pineapple Community uses, so what you submit for verification will never be accessible or seen by anyone from this site! THE PROCESS Unfortunately this isn't an instant process, but it is the best idea we have been able to come up with (for now) that we feel will help us comply with the laws, as well as allow us to keep the site free, since we can do this without having to pay for a verification service. 1) First you will need to go to our Verification Center and create a new ticket. You will need to provide your name, email address, date of birth, and your username at The Upside Down Pineapple Community. 2) Next, we will respond to your ticket with further instructions. These instruction will require you to submit a photo that has specific instructions, which help us to verify that you are an actual person and that you are over 18 years old. 3) Once we receive your verification photo back, we will review the photo and ensure it meets all the requested requirements. If it does, then we will convert your account to a Verified Member status, which will give you full access to the site, and allow you to view any adult oriented content on the site. GO TO THE VERIFICATION CENTER

We are in the process of adding a swingers club directory to the site, which you can find in the navigation bar. We are trying to make this the most comprehensive, relevant, and up to date directory available on the internet, so it will take a little time to get clubs added. We are starting with the United States and adding state by state, and then we will add other countries once we finish.

You can only list one (save some for the others) Ours is emojis over the faces in pictures and just the use of them in photos overall. Especially when they are so large that all you see is clothes. What the point of the photo at all? You’ve shown us nothing

I try to keep everything organized while we strip down to play so I have a habit to stuff my socks in my pants pocket. If I wear dark underwear, I would also shove them into my pants pocket. If my wife wears panties for the evening, I would also secure them in my pants pocket. However, the other weekend, I lost my pants, belt and my socks! 🤷‍♂️ Fortunately, that evening, I wore bright colored underwear and my wife didn't wear anything so I still had my underwear to wear leaving the club. 😂

Swinging clubs are very hard to find, any help?

We're having a house party coming up (about 50ish people expected) and we want to try a game of lap dance musical chairs. Anyone done anything similar? Tips on execution of said idea? We were thinking one round of girls dancing, then another with guys doing the dancing, but I feel like we’re missing something that could make it a more fun way to break the ice. Thoughts? Thanks in advance!

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My wife and I pretty much grew up in a high control religious group and after over two decades of being married we decided to leave the group a couple of years ago. Losing a big part of what we thought we were was difficult and there was some questioning about us even being together. Was it just because of the cult? Anyways we thought long and hard about our relationship and what we wanted from it and because we never had the chance to experiment with sex, not even as teenagers, we decided that we would try out the lifestyle and do our experimentation together as a couple. Anyways, it’s quite a stretch to go from religious, strictly monogamous to this new step in our lives but just the open communication around it helps us a lot so far. We actually went to a meet & greet with maybe 7-8 couples and it was really fun. Everyone was so welcoming and respectful. We didn’t find what we’re looking for yet but it was a fun first experience just to get to know people in the community. We’ve also had our first 1-on-1 dinner date with a couple. Again, super nice and it was really freeing for us to be able to openly talk about sexuality (amongst other subjects) with someone else. We still haven’t found our first play date but hope to get there one day. We don’t want to rush anything but are definitely looking forward to exploring this lifestyle!