How many of you have arranged a private first meet with a couple you met through an ad site, and once at the meeting place the "couple" doesn't arrive, instead, only one of them shows?

The person may have given you a reason like, "my spouse was called into work at the last minute" or some such thing.

How did you handle the surprise of seeing only one of them show? Did you believe the person's reason? Did you later meet both of them at another time?

We haven't had this happen, but if we did, we'd be stunned, suspicious, and would proceed cautiously. Depending on what the person continued to say and how they acted, we might be out of there in 5 minutes, never wanting anything to do with the "couple" again. But then...maybe things can go well in these cases?

We always exchange cell phone numbers before a private meet, so in a situation like this we'd expect a call as soon as their plans changed, this way we would be given the courtesy to know what's up ahead of time and set a new meet date if we preferred.

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