So my wife (28F) and I(28M) have been together for over a decade. Over our time together, she would comment/praise other women's appearance. I never thought much of it. About 5-6 years ago, we were drinking and she said, "if I was drunk enough, I'd go intrigued. We didn't really bring it back up for some years. Cut to two months ago, she made the same comment. So I said, "okay, do it." She was shocked and in disbelief. I told her, "I don't have a problem with you having a good time with another woman." She then proceeded to elaborate on her fantasies involving a woman. We're actively searching for a woman willing to partake in this experience with her. I'm incredibly turned on by my wife. For years, she's been very conservative with her thoughts sexually. In this last year, it has been a complete 180. I couldn't be more excited.

For anyone that has experienced something similar. How did your relationship dynamic change after? Is this fairly common among couples together for over a decade? How big of a concern are STIs?

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