TSBrit

Do you think in general that swingers have a higher libido than nonswingers on a per capita basis? Do you think that we are any "hornier" than our vanilla counterparts? Do you think that there is any correlation between sex drive and being in the lifestyle? Do you think that there is a public perception that we are hornier and more sexual in nature than vanillas? Do you think any of us entered into the lifestyle because we are any "hornier" than other people or are there other factors that have nothing to do with an individuals sex drive? Is it sex drive and the quest for more sex that brings people in to the lifestyle or is it something else entirely and people have an assumption and perception that we are hornier and more sexually oriented than other people? What are your thoughts on this?

Several week ago, I had some alone play with one of the wives in our closed married group of swingers. We had played before, but not alone. After some play, she said to me, "You can do whatever you want". I asked what she liked, but she replied firmly "I want you to do whatever you want to me". It's not a situation that I've faced before; all my previous encounters with women were negotiated for our mutual pleasure, even if a little bit extreme or kinky. What would you have done?