Kimistry

Do unicorns feelings matter to any couples who are on the hunt? I’m very novice to the lifestyle and am not looking to join a relationship but am looking to make some friends with the same interests. And trust me, I get that most couples are just looking for a good time and so am I! I feel I have the right mind set when it comes to the relationship I have been invited to get a closer look at. I don’t try to over step boundaries so my goal is to make a friend or two out of it as well as enjoy myself sexually. All that to say, my first experience has me perplexed. Met through him and he sent her my info and she and I began the chat. We met up for dinner and seem to hit it off really well. She made the first sexual advances towards me and after that she and I were playing the rest of the night together. We all seemed to enjoy ourselves and I left happy. We didn’t speak for a month or so. Just a text here and there so I thought they were done but she invited me back over again. She and I seem to really enjoy each other’s company and tbh I felt like HE wasn’t into me much overall. We started to get intimate again that night (initiated by them like before) and she seemed off but continued to play. She told he and I that she wanted us to have sex and we started but a few mins in she stopped and said she wasn’t feeling well. They went to talk he came back and said she wasn’t feeling well and to call it a night. I got dressed and left. I’ve gone a few weeks now and haven’t really heard back from them. I have now been officially ghosted lol. Now I wasn’t looking to be a third by any means but I was trying to enjoy myself and feel good with new friends. Fast forward to recently I find out now that SHE was the one not attracted to me….which I still don’t think he was either and now I’m just confused because I didn’t get that feeling at all. Idk I guess I’ve been out of the dating world for so long and jumping into the lifestyle arena is still so new to me I didn’t prepare myself for rejection from TWO people so quickly. It hard to discuss this with anyone else and get opinions when there is no one around with the same interests so I’m coming to you guys lol. I guess I just feel discouraged and need to hear some POVs from people who know what’s up. Thanks everyone!! 💋