Debauched

My boyfriend and I live in Tampa and are into the lifestyle, and have been for several years. We’ve been to Caliente, Secrets, Trapeze, and Colettes, but haven’t been to Paradise Lakes yet. Is there anything we should know before we go, like the age range of the people. Is it a lot like Caliente or is it different? Also, what would be the best day and time of year to go?